12 Celebrities Who IVF & Surrogacy

We’re not entitled to know a single detail about a celebrity’s personal life — much less their medical history. But stars who have chosen to come forward about their experiences with in vitro fertilization and gestational surrogacy are playing an enormous role in helping to destigmatize infertility, an often painful and stigmatized medical condition that affects almost one in six couples in the U.S.

Infertility is the inability to have a baby after 12 months of unprotected sex. Secondary infertility is the inability to have a child after having successfully given birth to a first. The causes of either condition are diverse and complex, and IVF, which is when doctors extract mature eggs from the mother and fertilize them with sperm from the father in a lab, is the most effective way to treat infertility. If any eggs are fertilized successfully, they can be placed back inside the uterus to give it a chance to implant and become a pregnancy.

Success rates can vary depending on things like the age of both parents and other pre-existing medical conditions. Currently, about 1.6 percent of all babies born in the U.S. were conceived with assisted reproductive technology, and the U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention note that the rate of ART procedures are probably smaller compared to the potential demand for these techniques. Cost is one big barrier keeping couples from IVF; one single IVF cycle costs an average of $12,400 in the U.S., according to the American Society for Reproductive Medicine, and the procedures are rarely covered by health insurance.

The people in the story below all have different reasons for arriving at the decision to attempt IVF. The thing that unites them all, in addition to grief over miscarriages and failed IVF attempts, is their hope to complete their families on their own terms. Read on and be inspired.

    • Khloe Kardashian
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Khloe Kardashian has been frank about her struggle with infertility, her rocky marriage and her attempt at IVF. Back in 2013, when she was 28 years old and still married to former NBA player Lamar Odom, she revealed in an episode of “Kourtney & Kim Take Miami” that her body does not ovulate (release an egg), and her uterine lining isn’t thick enough to support a pregnancy.

But a lot can happen in three years, and now that she and Odom are separated, Kardashian is glad that the fertility treatments did not work, she said in a March 2016 episode of “Kocktails with Khloe.”

At the time, I was like ugh! Gotta have a baby. That’s all I wanted at that time. And I thought maybe it would like, fix the situation. So I’m also happy that it didn’t happen. I was young, I was 27, and I thought, Oh my god, a baby will fix this!” Kardashian went on to say that she hopes that she has children one day.

    • Chrissy Teigen
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Chrissy Teigen and her husband John Legend welcomed their daughter in April 2016, but before she was born, the couple struggled with infertility and had to use IVF to get pregnant. Once they did conceive, Teigen continued to be open about the process, and she got some flack when she revealed the couple had chosen the baby’s sex before implantation.

Teigen took the criticism in stride, saying on Twitter that misunderstanding about the IVF process in general may have led some to believe that the couple had done IVF specifically to make a female embryo, or that “choosing” a female embryo meant discarding all the male embryos. In fact, that’s far from the case, and Teigen said that she and her husband have several embryos of both sexes in storage for future children. The controversy didn’t stop her from making a joke about it, though.

“I also picked the embryo with a taste for bacon, a knack for magic and size 7 feet so she can always find shoes.”

    • Hugh Jackman
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Hugh Jackman and his wife Deborra-Lee Furness always knew that they were going to adopt one day — but they assumed they’d have biological children first. The couple tried IVF twice, though each cycle ended in  miscarriage. He recalled the heartbreak in a 2013 interview with Good Housekeeping magazine and said each loss was a “massive letdown.”

“While you’re going through IVF and get pregnant, every day [the feeling is], We’re still holding! We’re still holding…!” Jackman said. “You know how precarious it is and how much she’s been through to get there. And [miscarriage] is a massive letdown. It’s really difficult — and much harder for the woman.”

The couple then began exploring adoption in the U.S., because Australia, where they’re from, didn’t allow couples to pursue both adoption and IVF at the same time. Eventually the couple ended up adopting two children: a newborn boy in 2000 and a newborn girl in 2005.

    • Nia Vardalos
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Nia Vardalos and her husband Ian Gomez struggled with infertility for nine years before becoming parents. In March, Vardalos told People magazine that she and her husband experienced 13 failed IVF treatments, several miscarriages and had no success going the surrogacy route.

“It was a sad process for me to become a mom, and a long process,” Vardalos said to People. “I felt so embarrassed that I couldn’t have a biological child.”

But she eventually did become a mom. In 2008, the California foster care system matched the couple with a three-year-old girl who would eventually become their daughter. Vardalos wrote about her experience in the book Instant Mom, which came out in 2013, and she is now an outspoken advocate for adoption.

    • Elizabeth Banks
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Elizabeth Banks and her husband Max Handelman have two sons who were born with the help of a gestational surrogate in 2011 and 2012. Banks says they needed help because embryos wouldn’t implant in her womb. After her first son was born, she told Women’s Health magazine that stories about other couples’ experiences helped them make the decision to go with surrogacy.

“It helped that other moms had said that once they had their babies, they forgot they were ever pregnant,” she told them in a 2012 interview. “So once my focus became the baby and not the pregnancy, it was a very easy decision.”

    • Giuliana Rancic
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E! News host Giuliana Rancic endured three IVF cycles and one miscarriage before finding out that she had breast cancer. Because she could no longer attempt to carry her frozen embryos due to the cancer treatment, she and husband Bill Rancic asked a gestational surrogate to carry their son, who was born in 2012. In a 2012 interview with CNN, Rancic got candid about the heartbreaking experience.

“My first IVF I did get pregnant — that was the miscarriage,” Rancic said. “But the second one, I did not get pregnant, and that was the biggest kick in the stomach, because I just could not believe you go through so much to get those eggs and put them in, and when the doctor calls you, to hear, ‘Oh, sorry, it didn’t work.’ That was the most shocking. I would go, ‘I’m a good person, and I could give someone the greatest life of all, but yet I can’t get pregnant.’”

    • Courtney Cox
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Cox had several miscarriages before doctors found out that a rare antibody in her blood prevented pregnancies from reaching full term. She tried IVF twice before successfully conceiving her daughter, and was frank about how difficult it was to continue filming a comedic TV show while suffering repeated pregnancy losses.

“I remember one time I just had a miscarriage and Rachel was giving birth,” Cox said in a 2004 interview with Dateline NBC, the year “Friends” ended. “It was like that same time. Oh my God, it was terrible having to be funny.”

    • Nicole Kidman
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Nicole Kidman has two adopted children with ex-husband Tom Cruise and two children with current husband Keith Urban. She gave birth to her first daughter with Urban in 2008, and a gestational carrier gave birth to their second one in 2011.

“I had tried and failed and failed and failed,” Kidman said in a 2008 interview with Australia’s Who magazine. “Not to be too detailed, but I’ve had an ectopic pregnancy, miscarriages and I’ve had fertility treatments. I’ve done all the stuff you can possibly do to try get pregnant. Every woman who has been through all those ups and downs knows the depression that comes with it. So the way it just happened with Sunday was like, ‘What?’ The percentages were so low. It is the miracle in my life.”

    • Sarah Jessica Parker
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Sarah Jessica Parker and her husband Matthew Broderick have three children. While Parker gave birth to their oldest in 2002, their twin daughters were born via gestational surrogate in 2009. She told Vogue magazine after they were born that meeting them for the first time in the hospital room was unlike anything else she had ever experienced.

“Meeting your children rather than giving birth to them, it’s as if, um, it’s — suspended animation,” she said to Vogue. “The gestational experience is gone. It’s as if everything else disappears for a moment, and the world goes silent and — I can’t explain it except to say that nothing else existed.”

    • Brooke Shields
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Brooke Shields wrote about her struggle to get pregnant and her postpartum depression in her 2005 book Down Came The Rain. She was 36 when she first started IVF and endured a miscarriage and several failed IVF cycles before they decided to try it one last time in 2002. It worked, and she gave birth to a daughter in 2003. She was definitely not a fan of the IVF injection process, she writes in her book.

“The whole process was quite an ordeal, and we became slaves to the time of day and to little vials of liquid,” Shields wrote. “We’d find ourselves out at dinner with friends, and then we’d have to sneak off to a coat room, where we’d huddle over syringes and a travel-size cooler filled with small bottles of drugs.”

She ended up conceiving again, this time without assistance, and gave birth to her second daughter in 2006.

    • Emma Thompson
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Emma Thompson and her husband Greg Wise welcomed their first child, a daughter, in 1999. She was conceived with help from IVF treatment, but when it came time for a sibling, fertility treatments just didn’t work the second time around. The failure caused Thompson to experience deep depression, and she said there were days she couldn’t get dressed or leave the house.

“IVF is very upsetting. It’s a brutal process and it’s very emotional. It’s really hard,” said Wise in a 2014 interview with The Daily Mail. “But then you pick yourself up, look around and see this unbelievably beautiful little baby you’ve got anyway.”

The couple eventually went on to adopt 16-year-old son Tindyebwa Agaba, a former Rwandan child soldier who had moved to Britain.

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Celine Dion and her late husband René Angélil underwent IVF seven times in order to give birth to their three children, a son born in 2001 and then twin boys born in 2010. Their eldest child was conceived in a single IVF cycle and born when she was 33, but getting pregnant a second time at age 42 was much more difficult. She endured a miscarriage and back-to-back fertility treatments until she became pregnant with triplets. Part way through the pregnancy, though, one of the fetuses died, leaving her with twin boys.

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Source: 12 Celebrities Who Have Opened Up About IVF And Surrogacy

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